幸福是段旅程 时间:2010-04-06
We always convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, than another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more contet when they are. After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. we will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.
我们总是说服自己,认为当我们结婚、生子后日子会过的更加舒心些。然后我们又被那 些小鬼的不懂事搞得不顺心,当他们大了些后,情况会好些吧。当孩子到了青春期的时候, (有时) 对于如何跟他们好好交流又会使我们很无措。 我们都深信当他们过了那个年龄段后, 事情就会有些转机。
We always tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together. when we get a nice car, and are able to go on a nice vocation when we retire. The truth is, there's no better time than right now. If not now, when? our life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to ourselves and decide to be happy anyway.
我们总是对自己说,当另一半有条理的过活时,(我们的)人生就会很圆满。当我们买 了一台漂亮的车子后,我们认为可以在年老退休后开去度假。可事实上,再也没有比当下更 好的时间段了, 要不是现在这时, 那么还能是什么时候呢?我们的人生满是各种神奇的未知 数。不管怎么说, 对你我而言,最好是承认活在当下里的意义然后及时“自己给自己找乐”。 One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred Souza. He said."for a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin-real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, someting to be gotten through firest, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid.
我最看中一段尔弗雷德.苏泽说过的话。他说“一直以来,我感觉的是真正的生活就要来 了。但是在前面总有些东西拦在那里,一些问题必须先被搞定后才能进行下一项,比如未完 成的工作,(做事时)等着轮到自己的那段时间、等待着交钱的帐单。”
Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life." This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment that you have.
当这些事解决后你才能开始自己的一天。后来我才觉悟到解决这些生活琐事的时候就是 我的人生。 怀着这样的想法使我认识到幸福是没有方式去追求寻找的。 因为寻找幸福的过程 本身就是幸福 积极向上对待你的生活 时间:2010-03-30
If your life feels like it is lacking the power that you want and the motivation that you need, sometimes all you have to do is shift your point of view.
如果你觉得心有余力不足,觉得缺乏前进的动力,有时候你只需要改变思维的角度。 By training your thoughts to concentrate on the bright side of things, you are more likely to have the incentive to follow through on your goals. You are less likely to be held back by negative ideas that might limit your performance.
试着训练自己的思想朝好的一面看,这样你就会汲取实现目标的动力,而不会因为消极 沉沦停滞不前。
Your life can be enhanced, and your happiness enriched, when you choose to change your perspective. Don't leave your future to chance, or wait for things to get better mysteriously on their own. You must go in the direction of your hopes and aspirations. Begin to build your confidence, and work through problems rather than avoid them. Remember that power is not necessarily control over situations, but the ability to deal with whatever comes your way.
一旦变换看问题的角度,你的生活会豁然开朗,幸福快乐会接踵而来。别交出掌握命运 的主动权, 也别指望局面会不可思议的好转。 你必须与内心希望与热情步调一致。 建立自信, 敢于与困难短兵相接,而非绕道而行。记住,力量不是驾驭局势的法宝,无坚不摧的能力才 是最重要的。
Always believe that good things are possible, and remember that mistakes can be lessons that lead to discoveries. Take your fear and transform it into trust; learn to rise above anxiety and doubt. Turn your "worry hours" into "productive hours". Take the energy that you have wasted and direct it toward every worthwhile effort that you can be involved in. You will see beautiful things happen when you allow yourself to experience the joys of life. You will find happiness when you addopt positive thinking into your daily routine and make it an important part of your world.
请坚信,美好的降临并非不可能,失误也许是成功的前奏。将惶恐化作信任,学会超越 担忧和疑虑。让“诚惶诚恐”的时光变得“富有成效”。不要挥霍浪费精力,将它投到有意 义的事情中去。当你下意识品尝生命的欢愉时,美好就会出现。当你积极地看待生活,并以 此作为你的日常准则时,你就会找到快乐的真谛。 生命中的美丽瞬间 时间:2010-03-29
That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
That when you're in love.it shows.
That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feeling in the world.
That being kind is more important than being right.
That you should never say no to a gift from a child.
That i can always pray for someone when i don't have the strength to help him in some other way.
That no matter how serious your life requires you to be,everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
That money dosn't buy class.
That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved. 人人都渴求欣赏和关爱。
That the Lord didn't do it all in one day. what makes me think i can?
That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
That love ,not time,heals all wounds.
That the easiest way to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
促进自己成长的最简单方法是与自己更优秀的人为伴。 每一个与你相遇的人都值得你笑脸相 迎。
That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
微笑是改善容貌的一种并不昂贵的方式。 充实你的思想 时间:2010-03-26
Since the pre-historic times, man has had an urge to satisfy his needs. Be it hunger, shelter or search for a mate, he has always manipulated the circumstances to the best of his advantages. Probably this might be the reason why we human are the most developed of all living species on the earth, and probably also in the universe. As we climbed the steps of evolution with giant leaps, we somehow left behind common sense and logical thinking ? we forgot that we have stopped thinking ahead of times. If you are hungry, what do you do? Grab a piece of your favorite meal and stay quiet after that? Just like your stomach, even your mind is hungry. But it never lets you know, because you keep it busy thinking about your dream lover, favorite star and many such absurd things. So it silently began to heed to your needs and never let itself grow. When mind looses its freedom to grow, creativity gets a full stop. This might be the reason why we all sometimes think "What happens next?", "Why can't I think?", "Why am I always given the difficult problems?" Well this is the aftermath of our own karma of using our brain for thinking of not-so-worthy things.
Hunger of the mind can be actually satiated through extensive reading. Now why reading and not watching TV? Because reading has been the most educative tool used by us right from the childhood. Just like that to develop other aspects of our life, we have to take help of reading. You have innumerable number of books in this world which will answer all your “How to?” questions. Once you read a book, you just don't run your eyes through the lines, but even your mind decodes it and explains it to you. The interesting part of the book is stored in your mind as a seed. Now this seed is unknowingly used by you in your future to develop new ideas. The same seed if used many times, can help you link and relate a lot of things, of which you would have never thought of in your wildest dreams! This is nothing but creativity. More the number of books you read, your mind will open up like never before. Also this improves your oratory skills to a large extent and also makes a significant contribution to your vocabulary. Within no time you start speaking English or any language fluently with your friends or other people and you never seem to run out of the right words at the right time. Actually, I had a problem in speaking English fluently, but as I read, I could improve significantly. I am still on the path of improvement to quench my thirst for satisfaction. So guys do join me and give food for your thoughts by reading, reading and more reading. Now what are you waiting for? Go, grab a book, and let me know!
自史前时代起,人类就已有满足自己需求的强烈欲望。无论是饥饿、避难或寻觅配偶, 人类总是操纵着环境使其达到最利于自己的状态。 这或许解答了为什么人类是地球上甚至是 宇宙中最高级的现存物种。 然而在进化的阶梯上取得巨大飞跃之时, 我们却不知何故将一些 常识和逻辑思维抛诸脑后了??我们忘记了自己已经停止了超前思维。 如果你饿了,你会怎么做?抓起你最喜爱的美食饱餐一顿,然后静静地呆在那里?而 你的大脑也像你的胃,是会感到饥饿的,但它却从不让你知道,因为你让它一直想着你的梦 中情人、 你最喜爱的明星和许多诸如此类的荒唐事。 因此它只是默默地留意着你的需要却从 不让自己成长。 当思维恣意成长时, 创造力就嘎然而止。 这也许就是为什么我们有时会想 “下 一步该如何”、“为什么我想不到?”、“为什么我总是碰到难题?”的原因吧。这也是我 们的大脑总在考虑那些毫无价值的事情产生的后果。 事实上, 思维的饥荒可以通过广泛的阅读来满足。 为什么是阅读而不是选择看电视呢? 因为自孩提时代起,读书就已经是最具教育性的工具了。正如人生发展的其他方面一样,我 们不得不求助于阅读。世界上有无数书籍可以回答你“如何做”的问题。读书时不仅要用眼 睛浏览文字,还要用脑去解读、诠释。书中有趣的部分就会像种子一样贮存在你的脑海里。 将来你会不自觉地运用这粒种子引发新的想法。 多次运用这粒种子将有助于你把许多事情联 系起来,即使你做梦都想不到这些!这不是别的,就是创造力!你读的书越多,你的心智就 会前所未有地开阔。而且这还会大幅度地提高你的演讲能力、丰富你的词汇量。你很快就能 用流利的英语或别的语言与你的朋友或别人交谈, 而且你再也不会在适合的场合缺少适合的 词语。
实际上,我的英语还是不够流利,但只要我阅读,我就会取得显著进步。现在我仍在 “自我提高”、为头脑“解渴”的长路上跋涉。请加入到我的行列吧!通过阅读、阅读、再 阅读来为你的思想“喂食”。你还在等什么?现在就拿起一本书让我瞧瞧! 我要笑遍世界 时间:2010-03-25
Henceforth will l shed only tears of sweat, for those of sadness or remorse or frustration are of no value in the market place whilst each smile can be exchanged for gold and each kind word, spoken from my heart, can build a castle. 从今往后,我只因幸福而落泪,因为悲伤、悔恨、挫折的泪水在商场上毫无价值,只有微 笑可以换来财富,善言可以建起一座城堡。
Never will l allow myself to become so important, so wise, so dignified, so powerful, that I forget how to laugh at myself and my world. In this matter I will always remain as a child, for only as a cl1ild am I given the ability to look up to others; and so long as I look up to another I will never grow too lo



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